Here’s How to Keep the Arguing to a Minimum This Thanksgiving

It can be tough when Thanksgiving takes place the same month as a presidential election. If you’ve got a divided group, here are five tips to keep the arguing to a minimum this year . . .

1. Set rules. It might not work for every family, but being upfront with your group and saying, “let’s keep things light, no politics or religion talk” can do the trick. The key is to not single out anyone in particular.

2. Designate an area for hot topics. Sometimes there are people in the group who just won’t abide by any rules to avoid certain topics.

So a good compromise is to designate a specific area where people who want to talk about politics, the news, and other sensitive topics can congregate. That way, at least the dinner table will be free from it.

3. Don’t take the bait. Sometimes people will test the limits in bad faith . . . and sometimes the combination of good food and drinks can loosen people up so they forget about any rules.

If someone tries bringing up a hot topic, don’t push back, call them out, or debate them. Instead, try to redirect the conversation with a lighter topic.

4. Prepare some topics ahead of time. In case you DO need to redirect the conversation, going in with an idea of a few safe topics will be helpful. Topics like movies or sports can usually get a few people excited enough to weigh in.

5. Know when to cut your losses and call it a night. Sometimes, the vibes just aren’t right. If the conversation at the dinner table cannot be held respectfully, it’s okay to head out before things becomes explosive.

(Business Insider / Rio Salado College)